Once Upon His Wedding

Once Upon His Wedding

Iam supposed to accompany my mom to another wedding. This time it is for her ex-husband- my father. He told my mom around Christmas last year to tell me that he was getting remarried. I guess he figured that she would break it to me nicer. If you ask me, he’s a coward for not telling me face to face. But that’s probably better that he didn’t, because I would have let him have it. Soon after I received the news, we received an invitation and I received a request to be a bridesmaid. I wasn’t having it. Bridesmaid- ha- it’s a joke, the wedding the invitation- it is all a joke. Why she wants to go is beyond me. She says she still loves him and supports his decision; therefore she wants to be there for him. But why she thinks she must drag me along is another mystery. However, I told her I would go and that is why I am here at Bloomingdales trying on hideous dresses that she thinks are “tasteful.” I hate when she uses that word. I hate when she uses a lot of words. Even certain phrases are stupid. She acts like we are royalty and I quote, “if we are not proper my dear, what will the others think of us? We can’t have them thinking we are anything less than we really are, can we? Certainly not, now bat your eyes and curtsey.”

Curtsey? Who ever thought of such a thing and why was I the one being pressured to do it? It was peer pressure I tell ya’ I didn’t want to curtsey, it hurt my knees and the first few time I tried to do it, I fell over and had to get some ice on my ankle. Stupid royalty, we are nowhere near them, and I am being forced by my will to do that sh- stuff.

I was not looking forward to seeing my dad. He was one of those love them and leave them guys that I never had a place in my heart for. I guess it is just my nature to push him away, since he pushed me away. Not that this is a monkey-see-monkey-do ordeal, but I have every right to despise him; especially since he is leading on my mom like this. Inviting her to his wedding like we are his family when he clearly decided we weren’t a long time ago.

And the woman he is marrying- a tall, toothpick thin, blonde with perfect highlights and a smile that shines so bright it nearly beats out the sun. I’d only met her twice now when I was shipped out to England against my will to visit my father because the courts said he deserved it or something. And I can tell you first hand from being at Coocalot’s Restaurant Bar and Grill for some step-mother and daughter bonding that this woman cannot hold her liquor because she gets tipsy after one Bloody Mary, she doesn’t know how to play rummy and has six kids because she “absolutely adores children Milly and she will love you like her own.” Six kids and still looks like a white Tyra Banks. I am sure she works with the needy and the homeless too and has sponsored 50 kids from those commercials on TV.

But nevertheless, I am picking a bright pink dress with a bow attached to the back and having my hair done by Mark Paul Williams who I think is gay because everything has to be perfect and hair sprayed so there are absolutely no “frizzies, we cannot have frizzies Milly, it will ruin the whole day.” He is also doing my makeup… that should give away his sexuality right there. I don’t even like pink, and I would rather be wearing black to the sperm donors wedding.

“Hold your head straight dear. Mark cannot do your hair if you are a little wiggle bug.” My mother was persistent on everything being absolutely perfect and matching. I guess that is why my make up was also pink so that in the end I looked like a papaya spit up on me.

Mom must have disappeared at some point to make arrangements for the journey we were on because in no time, she had a limo waiting to take us to the wedding. I guess it was another royalty kind of thing for her, but I couldn’t tell if we were pitied guests or with the wedding party. It was a three and half hour drive from Plumton, New York to Bishop New Jersey. Mark Paul decided to go with us on the long ride so he could keep us looking our best. It was a drag and I was almost ready to jump through the roof of the stupid vehicle just to get away. Who cares about frizzies?

Bishop, New Jersey, I don’t know why dad and Jackie chose Bishop. They lived in England for crying out loud. Bishop was just another small town on the east coast with neighborhoods where everyone knew each other. Where people waved at everyone and knew every person’s name on the next five blocks, the sun shined every day, and dogs were in fenced in front yards, kids in pools, daddies mowing grass and mothers cleaning in plaid or flowered aprons. I guess Jackie wanted an All-American wedding, since she had never been here. Supposedly they are serving hotdogs as an appetizer. Can’t get more American, (or redneck) than that.

As we passed tree after tree with leaves in the midst of changing for fall, torment began to sink in. Mom must have quoted Coco Chanel 5,000 times saying, “A girl should always be two things - classy and fabulous."

I rolled my eyes and mumbled, “How about tomboyish and rude?” Mark Paul and mom swung their heads at me in disgust. I was surprised we weren’t rerouted to the nearest hospital to get them checked out for whip lash.

“MILLY! How dare you. You know that isn’t proper at all. You must be kidding, and if you are, it certainly is not a joke. Now, do you have your shoes? Where is your purse? Mark Paul, do you have a tube of that lipstick for her to carry so she can reapply it in the powder room later? Milly, stop crossing you’re your ankles, cross your legs, sit nicely, look pretty, don’t slouch. You wouldn’t want Jackie to think any less of you because you sit like a toad on a log, would you?” There was nothing I could do, I lived with this woman. Her craziness was just an act and I was about ready to ship her to the circus. But for now I wanted to suffocate the driver and drive this limo right into the nearest lake.

We must have been late, the cars line the curb in front of the King Gort’s Mansion at Henry Street and Eighth. Not a whole lot of royalty in tardiness, yet we slowly walked through the black steel gate and up the tan and black marble steps to hopefully catch a seat in the back. “Ah, Ms. Milly and mother, you two do not sit back here; you must be taken to the front. There is reserved seating for you on the groom’s side. You look beautiful ladies; I almost thought you were the bridesmaids.”

Damn the ushers with the guests lists. How’d they know who we were? Do they have a mug shot picture of us next to the name?

We walked down the long aisle to where the reserved seating was marked appropriately with a large sign. I was so ready to ditch this event. Maybe I could sneak out a bathroom window. “It’s not a bathroom my dear, it’s a powder room Milly.” Ahhh, what was that? Mom is in my head correcting my thoughts now too?

My brain was more engulfed in executing a plan to run that it never stopped to look at the place we were in. A ballroom in the only mansion in town covered in lilies and baby’s-breath, pink, red and gold color scheme, and pews that were laced with wedding confetti and little trinkets full of birdseed to throw at the happily married couple after they ran out the doors like robbers from a bank to their getaway car. It must have cost a pretty penny to rent out the ballroom. The ceilings were high with angels painted on them. The artwork was phenomenal. Where he got the money for this place I don’t know. I do know he isn’t that rich, because mom complains to me about how she isn’t receiving child support, but that is in private when no one is around to hear that we really don’t have loads of money to swim in and we aren’t royalty.

I needed to make a clean break for the door. Just getting up and running unquestionably would not be the safest bet. Especially with mom watching my every move and Mark Paul still on standby in case frizzies happened to turn up. I guess just going to the bathroom would be the best bet. Of course I couldn’t tell her I needed to pee, she would turn it into a fiasco and have to come with me to hold my dress to make sure it wouldn’t get touched by toilet water, then I am sure Mark Paul would have to iron the dress where mom held it because there would be wrinkles or as he would say, “crinklies.” I could say I needed a new layer of my Cranberry Ice lipstick; there would be no reason for her to join me.

“Mom…”

“What did I say about calling me ‘mom’? Call me mother- it is more sophisticated. And don’t slouch when you sit. Sit nice and tall. At least try to act like you are lady… I know God put some estrogen in your body somewhere.”

“Mother Dearest… I am going to the bath… sorry… the powder room to apply some more of this wretched lipstick to myself. I will be back in a jiff.” My eyes rolled as she motioned with her arm for me to walk down the aisle towards the back of the room.

BINGO! Lipstick saves the day. Thank you, Mark Paul Williams, for helping me get out of the ceremony. I made my way to the back of the room following the long red carpet that they had rolled out for Jackie to walk down. I didn’t know whether to think of her as my future stepmom or a celebrity to get an autograph from. I didn’t care either way because all I knew was she was taking my father from his original family.

As I opened the big wooden doors with stained glass windows, I saw her. Jackie Marissa Cox. I could barely look at her. She was so thin, so beautiful so… desperate. Must be anyway, she has only known my dad for six months and is already dripping with diamond frosting that he bought her. She had it all within a month, the ring, the dress, the man, the family, the home, the sex… “Oh the sex, it is just delightful…” she would brag to all the neighbors on the block where she lived with me standing behind her like a stray dog. It was disgusting; I wanted to throw her in a pile of cow dung and spit on her nice white shoes. I wanted to pull out each hair on her head individually while she said, “Milly stop, Milly, please.” I wanted her to work for the life she was stealing. In my mind she needs to work to gain our last name.

I turned around to look down the aisle, the wedding music was playing, my father was standing at the front of church and my mom was motioning me to hurry back to my seat.

“Go- that is your queue.” A bridesmaid was pushing me from behind to walk through the door.

“I’m not…” I barely got those two words out before I figured out I was halfway down the red carpet. I was in the wedding, the one I didn’t even want to go to. This was falling apart, where was I supposed to stand? My legs went wobbly and the expression on my mom’s face was pure horror. When Jackie saw me standing there she would flip… maybe I could duck out while they prayed. None of them were here for me anyway… they were here for Jackie; the beautiful slut that stole my father right under my mom’s nose.

She had been eyeing me since the moment she bought her first pearl necklace with my college fund. Telling my dad there was no reason to put money like that away; I’m probably not even his. And yet, she said she loved me like a daughter of her own and that she was lucky to have me in her life. I know she meant it the other way around.

I walked down the aisle worried as all hell. My palms were sweaty, my knees were knocking, and I could barely breathe. I felt my heart pounding as if it were going to fall through my belly button and land on the floor. I paced myself walking up the stairs to the altar, thinking of a plan either get out of here or get to Jackie’s neck before she got to mine.

I turned on the step, my face painted with a Mona Lisa smile. The rest of the bridesmaids filed in towards the front of the room like cattle. Clothed in the stylish dresses that Jackie herself picked, hair done up with bobby pins invisible to the naked eye, and sprinkled with some glitter to shine. Then, she stepped in view with her face so innocent looking, I puked in my mouth a little bit. She walked slowly, as if taking in every moment and making a memory scrapbook.

Alas she stepped so lightly up to my father, mouthing the words I love you forever. Ironically my mother told me she had done the same at her wedding.

It was time for the dreaded exchange of vows. “Jackie, would you like to read your vows please?”

“There are no words to explain the way I feel about you. I love you. You are my best friend. Today I give myself to you in marriage. I promise to encourage and inspire you, to laugh with you, and to comfort you in times of sorrow and struggle. I promise to love you in good times and in bad, when life seems easy and when it seems hard, when our love is simple, and when it is an effort. I promise to cherish you, and to always hold you in highest regard. I love you this much... enough to do anything for you, give my life, my love, my heart and my soul to you and for you. I love you enough to willingly give all of my time and effort. Thoughts, talents trust and prayers to you enough to want to protect you, care for you, guide you, hold you comfort you, listen to you, and cry to you and with you, enough to be silly around you, never have to hide anything from you, and be myself with you. I love you enough to share all of my sentiments, dreams, goals, fears, hopes, and worries my entire life with you enough to want the best for you, to wish for your success and to hope for the fulfillment of all of your endeavors enough to keep my promises to you and pledge my loyalty and faithfulness to you. Enough to cherish your friendship adore your personality, respect your values and see you for who you are...I love you enough to fight for you compromise for you and sacrifice myself for you if need be enough to miss you incredibly when we are apart, no matter what length of time it’s for and regardless of the distance enough to believe in our relationship to stand by it through the worst of times, to have faith in our strength as a couple, and to never ever give up on us enough to spend the rest of my life with you, be there for you, when you need or want me, and never ever want to leave you or live without you... I love you this much. These things I give to you today, and all the days of our life. Yours always, Jackie.”

Where did she get that horse crap from, the internet? I rolled my eyes clear enough for everyone to see. “Bullshit.”This was a statement I was repeating in my head but it must have slipped through my lips loud enough for people to hear because my dad was looking at me clearing his voice the way he does when I do something I shouldn’t. And of course my comment didn’t stop the wedding or anything. The ceremony proceeded on and I still was standing at the altar when I wasn’t supposed to be.

And you know how weddings go… do you, so-and-so take so-and-so to be blah blah blah… I do I do, kiss the bride, whisk her away into a Just Married car and be off to the reception for cake that costs 500 dollars and non-stop picture taking, kisses from aunts that pinch cheek and uncles who wear too much after shave.

After the you-may-kiss-the-bride segment of this horror movie, we all headed outside with our trinkets and tossed the birdseed in the air. I gripped mine in my hand waiting to pelt Jackie in her little pretty face with it. I had imagined it getting in her eyes and having an ambulance come take her to the hospital where they announced she was blind, but after they had emerged from the doors, my grasp slowly let go of the seeds and they bounced down the stairs.

We all headed to banquet hall at Cheddar’s for the reception. I was enthralled to get my hotdog that I was sure would be served with cheese and chili, with a side of fries drowning in malt vinegar.

As dad and Jackie waltzed around the reception, I could remember when he left us. No, I didn’t know what was going on. He didn’t just get up and leave one day either. It was a drawn out process that I am sure he had been planning since he told my mother “I do.” He sat us down, my sister and me, and told us that he was going on a trip far away and that he wasn’t sure when he’d be back. I remember crying, but not hard enough to let it show. I couldn’t, my sister need me to be strong. She was sitting in front of the fireplace sipping milk from the cows out back and wiping away her tears as they fell, although some slipped away and hit the hardwood floor like marbles. He told us he loved us, and that he would always be here even in our hearts. We believed him then, but after a week or so, the letters and phone calls stopped coming to us and we were left to carry on without a daddy. I guess we just sort of moved on after that.

It took all my nerve not to wander over there and pop them both in the jaw. Instead, I said hello, curtseyed like mom suggested and wandered away.

Mom and I never spoke of their wedding again, it was like a bad movie we went to that just wouldn’t stop playing in our heads, but we didn’t want to bring it up. Mom burned her wedding album that she had cried over so many nights before. The only thing left to the original Thorn family was the family picture I held in my hands and the wedding photo I took from the album last week.

Michael’s Shoebox

It was a shoebox I got my new sneakers in. I kept it as a reminder of him. Not because he bought my shoes but because I kept every little thing that could jog my memory of him in it. By now it was covered in dust from sitting in my closet for so long.

He lived in Verde, 20 miles outside of Bingham. He wasn’t the love of my life, but I did love him. Then again I was 17 and thought I loved everyone. I kept trinkets that he gave me, a gummy candy frog that was green, letters we wrote, pictures… anything that made me think of him.

As I finally took the old shoebox from its place in the closet, my hands shook. They hadn’t done that before, but now, they did and I couldn’t stop it. My fingers were covered in thick gray dust that had settled among the box since 2002. I lifted the top and felt like I was 17 all over again.

Everything in there had decayed. The frog was nothing more than a raisin now and the pictures were fading to the point of no recognition. I couldn’t read the letters he sent me because I couldn’t make out the words that he scribbled in pencil and I couldn’t even see the lines on the paper. Only one thing had survived being in the forgotten box…

He was into me, so much so that he bought me a promise ring… after I dumped him for the new guy I loved. I sent it back, but a week later, it was in my mailbox again with a note saying, “I want you to keep it. I have no use for it, there is only one girl I want to have it and she sent it back. Please just keep it… if not because we will be together, at least do it just for me. Love you always, Michael.” I never wore it, until three years later. I just put it in the box next to the frog that I thought held so much importance.

Eventually I received another letter and a picture of him holding a rose. He was covered in silver spray paint, and the smell of aerosol lingered on the letter. It clung to my fingers for hours after holding the letter. I pushed it away, stashing it in the shoebox, hoping that I would never smell it again; yet every time I opened the closet door for a new shirt, there was that smell, invading my walls and my clothes, like it had a right to make me cry over him.

Years went by. I saw him occasionally; at the car wash or at the gas station. We were older now, but he still looked the same. His attitude was different, but he still looked like the Michael I knew at 17. He was dressed different, said he was heading to Navy because he wasn’t getting what he wanted out of life here. He didn’t have to spell it out, I knew he meant me. But from what I knew, he had a new girlfriend… with my name.

I never saw him again after we were at Joe’s Car Wash on Front St. He never wrote me again, and I never took out the box to remember him. I figured he was okay, and I knew he was. I had heard he was marrying that girl. People said they were happy, I didn’t doubt it; too many years went by that he gave up on me.

I guess I don’t really know what happened, I can just assume. On that cold February night in 2005 when the phone rang changed my life. It was a consolation call from Michael’s best friend. I hadn’t talked to him in ages and honestly don’t even know how he got my number. But that was less important when he said, “Michael is dead. It’s in the paper; I can’t believe you didn’t see it.”

Dead? That was absurd. He was getting married in a week and was happy. I remember throwing the phone, like it was the liar in this situation. I had to see for myself. I took the car keys, and headed out to the Pilot for a copy of my own; crying the whole way there and back without sneaking a peak at it because it was the key to the truth that had my heart breaking at that very moment.

After arriving home, I sat in my car for almost two hours. The bitter cold began to sink in and my hands started to go numb. Nothing would hurt more though than holding the newspaper and reading the headline I feared. Three years ago, he was a happy go lucky teenager and now, he was being shipped from his navy base back home without a single breath in his body. I was mad, upset and everything else bad.

I don’t know how it happened, and I don’t know why I decided to go to the funeral. I had a logic that everyone close to him needed sympathy and I wanted to be there for them. He and I were close at one point, and I just thought I should pay my respects. I have to admit, I was there to pay my respects more than I was to sympathize.

I did go that night, I traveled my way through Verde, down one way streets until the funeral parlor came into view. There were already navy personal there and cars lined the curb down six blocks. The black hearse sat in front and people lined themselves down around the block as they piled into the little 1800’s home to say goodbye to Michael. I eventually made my way in, signed the guest book and grabbed a card bearing the poem his family chose.

I was there five minutes if that, my mom by my side handing our coats to the greeter and standing in line. I knew his girlfriend would be there, they were to be married in a week, and I had no idea who she was. We had never met, but I knew it was the right thing to do… give her hug and a card that I had saying, “Time will ease your pain, life's about changing, nothing ever stays the same.”

Then a tall blonde came up to me, grabbed me by the arm and pulled me outside. With no introduction she said, “What the hell are you doing here? Michael would not want you here. I know who you are. You broke his heart. I don’t want you here, get out.” I was blown away. This must be his fiancé.

The only thing I could say without getting punched into the ground was, “How do you know who I am?”

Her eyes squinted at me like she was a rabid beast waiting to kill its delicious dinner. “I saw pictures. Michael showed me pictures from the shoebox he had. You… he wouldn’t want you here. He stopped loving you after you broke his heart.”

“Pictures? How can you say that he didn’t still love me or wouldn’t want me here if he had pictures? If he showed you these pictures, he must have kept them for a reason.”

As she huffed, I felt like I was breathing in fire. “You just better go. I wouldn’t want to do something I regret at my fiancés funeral.”

I left after that, never being able to say goodbye to Michael. Emptiness in my heart still lingers to the day. Maybe I just never let it go. Or maybe I just can’t forgive myself for being immature at 17. I still am able to think about him. I do have this ring that he gave me and to me to keep. I guess now is a better time than ever to finally wear it. But the rest of the shoebox is just a dust collector, I should probably just say goodbye now and throw it away.

So in all fairness Michael, I tried to say goodbye a long time ago, but since I couldn’t, rest in peace.

HARRY’S

This is the foyer- your sanctuary. You must keep it clean at all times. If you are not cashing out a customer or doing other duties that pertain to this job, you must be cleaning. This is your register. It is old, so do not bang on it… it will open when it feels like it. If it takes too long, come find me and I will jimmy it open with a steak knife. If you bang on it and I catch you or find out about it some other way, you will be obligated to replace it with a new one; I will take it out of your paycheck. If you want all of your paycheck, do not ruin things that are not yours. Do not make me repeat this again, because I will if I have to.

This is the phone. It is the company phone, so do not make personal calls and tie it up. If you have time to talk on the phone, then you have time to clean; cleaning is a main priority, not talking on the phone. You must not touch this phone unless it rings, in which case you answer, “Hello, this is Harry’s. How can I help you?” The person on the other end will tell you who they are looking for and you will fetch that person. Nobody is allowed to call for you. If it is an emergency for you, they may call me and I will deliver the message to you.

Over here is what used to be the smoking section. We are smoke-free now, so do not let anyone light a cigarette, cigar or marijuana in here. The cushions on all the booths come out easily, make sure that you vacuum inside it. Sometimes we find Margie hiding in one, smoking who knows what while she is on the clock. If you cannot find her for something, come find me and I will call her emergency therapist. Usually she is having a break down… her husband just came out of the closet. She brings in food a lot. Cookies, brownies, whatever it may be, don’t eat it. If you do, make sure you get checked out by a doctor after work. She has threatened to kill us all in one of her break downs so either don’t eat it or don’t piss her off. Generally though, Margie is sweet.

There are designated coffee pots for each section. Each coffee pot is marked Caf or DCaf. They are also color coded for easy association. Do not put Caf in the DCaf pot for a joke. It is not funny. We had to call the police to get Jeremy out of here after Quinn Hilker pulled that joke. Poor Jeremy got a year in the state penitentiary for trying to run down his wife in the parking lot out front after a sip of that coffee. That is why we fired her. I have a form for you to sign regarding the coffee pots.

The main dining room is split into two sections for the wait staff. On the right is where Cora Heart serves. She calls in a lot. Her husband deals cars upstate, and the FBI is on to him for the heroin and meth that he is receiving inside the cars and dealing out of their home. Cora doesn’t do much here, if she asks you to do something for her, do it. I hear she keeps a pocket knife in her apron and a gun strapped to her ankle. I haven’t seen her use it yet, but that is so from what I have seen, so you might want to ask around. Don’t let her catch you asking though; otherwise you might lose a limb.

On the left is Harold’s section. Harold is the one that holds us altogether. He lives here pretty much. All the girls are flirty with him. He is the Tom Cruise of this place. I got a piece of toilet paper he used and sold it to that Quinn girl who you are replacing for five dollars. Luckily that will replace the five I stole two weeks ago. Shhh… don’t tell the boss. He is a good worker though. He is never late by our clock and stays passed shift. He and his girlfriend have a baby, so if you plan to flirt with him, don’t tell him you know of his situation. Make sure you look innocent. He isn’t too flirty; he is committed to his partner. But if anyone can break him, it might just be you. Make sure you unbutton the first three buttons there on the shirt and show some cleavage. That might help. See me about that later in my office. We will talk privately with the door locked and the blinds closed.

If I am not here, we will assign a PIC. Usually Autumn is the person-in-charge. She is quite dirty; but she is a good worker when she isn’t in the freezer sniffing cocaine or laying on her back on the restroom floor with an employee. She offers rides to any and every male who come here, some females too, so when you are around her, button up… unless you are into that. She has slept with all the male employees here except for Harold. He isn’t giving in, but she isn’t giving up. And that cocaine thing is a secret, so stuff it in your lock box.

Willy Holden is Autumn’s husband. They like to pretend not to know each other when they are here. We caught Willy in my office with the new dishwasher Charlie Van Hoyt last week. Willy claims he thought Charlie was a girl. Don’t ask him about it- he will slap you.

Ricardo is also a dishwasher here. He is the one that stands outside waiting for his mommy to pick him up. You know… the guy with the thick handle-bar mustache. Keep an eye on him though, he steals food; not from us really, but from customers. After they are finished and the dishes are put in the bin, he eats the food that is left from what customers did not eat. We try to make sure that the bins are cleaned constantly so he does not eat the “leftovers.” He tells lies or untrue facts a lot. Don’t believe a word he says. Last Wednesday he told everyone that Derek Jeter was sick of the Yankees and was trying his turn in the NFL. But you don’t have to worry about him; he never speaks to any girls or looks at them. Although he did make an exception for Autumn at one point.

The back dining room is split too. On the right is Marla Sanchez. She has tendencies to complain about everything, so just tune her out. She likes to be pampered a lot, so if she asks you to rub her feet tell her to go home. She never does go home, but at least she will stop asking you to rub her bunions.

Bobbie Ralph is on the other half. He may be cute to you, but do not make a move. His girlfriend is quite strict on who he talks to; especially the girls here. She is quite large, so don’t initiate a fight over Bobbie. If she attacks you, then… well it was good knowing you.

This is where all the cleaning supplies can be found. You are allowed to take one roll of paper towels and one cleaning agent to the front with you at a time. It would be wise to always have the all-purpose cleaner with you. Don’t take any home with you, you will get fired.

This is the break room. You get one break- for lunch. You must order food here or go home. You cannot come in with food and you may not leave with food; however you may buy food before you leave. Do not come in smelling like Burger King. This is not your palace. You cannot have your cake and eat it too.

Do not accept tips from anyone. You do not get any. Do not do the servers side work for tips and do not take to-go orders and accept a tip when they come to pick it up. I am not your pimp and you will not be tipped.

This is your area-keep it clean. You can start now.

Snedeker

His hat always hung near the back door. It was red and black plaid, which had a scratchy wool kind of feel to it. It was next to a sign that said something about nickels in a barrel, but I can’t even remember what now. But it had something to do with leaving five cents in the little barrel that was attached to it. That barrel slot was only big enough for one nickel, and I would occasionally put one in there to see if they ever checked to empty it. I never knew then that it was just for show. He and I had never been close. He never told me he loved me, and when we were at the mall, he always gave my cousin Ryan money and not me. He favored Ryan. Like a favorite pet or something. I understand now that it wasn’t Ryan’s fault, and it wasn’t that Grandpa didn’t like me, but I still wish he showed me he loved me like he did Ryan. Grandma and Grandpa had five children, all of which were girls. So when Ryan came along, Grandpa felt it necessary to bond with him.

That left me with Grandma. That was no problem though. She was a great woman. She gave me money at the mall. She always gave me an extra dollar more than Grandpa gave Ryan. She also had gum in her purse when the time was right. I always found the last stick of gum in the bottom of her fake black leather purse underneath everything she had in it. It was even under all her loose change. She would also have me fetch out a dollar to put in the offering. That purse sat between us in the pew during church service. I hated going to that church service. It was surely for old people. I began to realize why Ryan had asked Grandpa to come pick him up after Sunday school. Eventually I got tired of falling asleep during service on my Grandma’s lap with a half chewed piece of gum in my mouth, and hitched a ride with Ryan and Grandpa in that ugly old green van.

That van was Grandpa’s pride and joy… we used it for everything. We always used it to go on the family trips to Dorney Park usually. It had a back seat, but behind that there was a big open space with a table. That was always awkward to me, but Grandpa loved it. The only problem was the music that came from the stereo; old songs that I didn’t know, but Grandpa and Grandma would sing like birds and the occasional attempted harmonies of my mother and Aunt Tammy would sing along if it were from their time.

I loved going to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. Maybe it was because Grandma would make me as much cinnamon sugar toast as I wanted. I think that is all I ever ate at their house. No, that can’t be true. Because I remember eating leaks that were freshly picked from who knows where shoved in a jar and stashed in the refrigerator, chives that were growing out front in Grandma’s flower bed, and grandma made the best Ramen noodles I ever had. When Ryan was around she had to make it two ways. She knew who liked it which way. Ryan ate it with the broth in it. I hated it that way when I was little. So she drained mine usually into Ryan’s dish. She would smother mine in butter to make it creamy, and then she would always hide an ice cube in the middle of my noodles. But somehow, that ice cube would melt in the two steps from the freezer to the table, and she would have to get me another one.

If it were dinner time, with Ryan over, we always ate spaghetti with a glass of milk. Ryan would think he was the best cook ever and start to add things to the sauce. I thought he knew what he was doing, and started to do it too. I never knew what the sauce tasted like just from the jar until I had it with my mom. Ryan would add a little salt, a little oregano, and who knows what else. He loved milk back then. I don’t remember him drinking anything else. I think that if you had asked Grandma what she always needed on hand back then she would have said, “Milk and cinnamon sugar.” She made her own cinnamon sugar, and it tasted great. That’s another thing; I never knew you could buy cinnamon sugar already mixed right in the store. I never knew you could buy chopped nuts right in the store as well. Grandma had an old green chopper in her cupboard with nuts in it all the time. Whenever I was in the vicinity of the door it was behind, I always had a tendency to chop those nuts. It was automatic for me and by the time I was done, they were nothing but dust. I guess it was a disappointment when I found already chopped nuts in the Giant.

It was constant fun up at Grandma and Grandpa’s… even though their house was in the middle of nowhere on Colesville Rd. Grandpa bought Ryan and I a go-cart which was good since they owned 81 acres of land. It was great fun until we got too big for it; in which case we had to sell it due to it getting no more usage.

81 acres. That meant nothing to me when I was younger. All I knew was there were fields everywhere, and a whole bunch of forest area. Grandma and Grandpa had a camp-site way up out back. It literally was a home-away-from-home. We were up there so much that Grandma made a sign for the back screen door that said:

“Up to camp. Come on up!”

Grandpa would throw parties up there for everything. Most of the time it was a reunion party, but I am sure a lot of the time it was a “just because” party. Grandpa had a generator for when the night fell, because when you are with the Snedeker’s, the party doesn’t end until people leave and the beer is gone. And it took a long time for the beer to get emptied; that was probably because there was so much of it. It didn’t matter what the weather was either. Grandpa had an old bus that had a woodstove in it, and attached to that he built a pavilion which had picnic tables, cabinets, and a stove. I remember I would always dodge people who wanted me to get them something out of the cabinets, one time I got them what they needed, and there was a mouse in there, THAT WAS THE LAST TIME I WOULD EVER OPEN THE DOOR TO THE CABINETS. Outside, he had a big homemade cooking grill that was made out of a metal barrel that made everything we ate, there was a fire pit that we could grill on and have toasted marshmallows or whatever.

Down yonder there was a pond. People would go swimming in it here and there, but eventually I didn’t like that doing that since the fish bit at my toes. I was more interested in catching the frog that lived along the shore and edges of the pond. Ryan could be found fishing of the dock in the back of the pond, and eventually I followed him and fished as well. Grandpa always would say, “Is that a sunny? Throw it away if it is, we got too many of them in there.” I bet we walked into the field not even a foot, there would many fish bones from where all the sunny’s baked in the sun and died.

Usually, people would get tired of the partying (I know I did a lot) and we would end up sleeping in a tiny camper that Grandma and Grandpa had up near the pavilion. After a while though, I got sick of going in there because it was infested with wasps.

Grandpa made sure there were many things to do up at the camp-site. He had a horse-shoe court, volleyball court, swings, fishing, swimming with a diving board, cards were usually being played in the pavilion, and there was always the option of karaoke in the pavilion as well. Grandpa showed off his vocals, singing old songs like “There’s a Tear in My Beer.” I can still hear his ragged voice singing:

“There’s a tear in my beer
cause I’m cryin for you,
Dear you are on my lonely mind.
Into these last nine beers
I have shed a million tears.
You are on my lonely mind
I’m gonna keep on sittin here
Until I’m petrified.
And then maybe these tears
Will leave my eyes.
There’s a tear in my beer
cause I’m crying for you, dear
You are on my lonely mind.”

Most of the time, Ryan and I were the servers of the beer. We were of course underage, but that is beside the point. The beer drinkers were always stationed in the same spot, on the left side of the pavilion in the shaded area, sitting in the old metal chairs with red paint peeling away from them. They were always laughing, talking and drinking really loud, and of course always too lazy to get their own refills. Then again I guess that if they tried to get up to get their refills, they might not be able to make it two feet to the keg due to unstable movements. Therefore, Ryan and I were the ones making refill runs. I remember a guy standing next to the keg telling me how to fill the cup by tipping it so that there was more beer in the plastic cup rather than foam. Ryan and I never made any money doing this, but we were at every beckoning call.

Back at the house though, when I was there during the day, I would very rarely take my nap in my Grandma’s room. This was odd, since her and I were so close. Instead, I would always find myself in my Grandpa’s room. I would lay and look at his wall for hours, before and after my nap. For some reason, (I never asked why), my Grandpa’s room had wallpaper that had fruit on it. Grapes, apples, oranges, and the more that I looked this collage of fruit; the more it looked like a rocking horse to me. Not a happy one either, it looked mean. It was amazing to me, and I don’t know why now. Maybe it is because I was at that age where I thought if I could turn something into something else with my eyes, than… I MUST BE A GENIUS! Granted, in the end, all it was was wallpapered fruit.

I would spend many days out front in the yard waving down cars trying to make them honk their horns at me. I’d prance around the yard singing and dancing to my own voice. I would go smell flowers in my grandma’s garden that only consisted of pansies and chives. After I found that chives were actually food, I would pick one everyday and chew on it.

If I got bored, I was sure that I could end up in the house, laying on my back in the middle of the living room because Ryan would have to perform wrestling moves on me.

At night, when I stayed overnight, I always would look at a frame my Grandma had hanging by her bed that read: “But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; the chastisement of our peace was upon Him; and with His stripes we are healed. (Isaiah 53:5)” And every night before I went to bed, Grandma would have me say the Lord’s Prayer. I always say it wrong when I was seven. I would consider this the first line: “Our Father, who does art in Heaven, hollow it, be His name.” After that line, Grandma could never finish, because she couldn’t stop laughing.

Grandma and Grandpa Snedeker had funny personalities. Grandma was one of a kind. She was a Christian woman who read her devotions daily, and if she was reading the Bible or devotions, she was caught doing crossword puzzles while slumped over in her chair. She loved the “Price is Right.” If you were over to her house, you could bet at 11am she would have channel 12 tuned into that. Every once in a while in my rebellious years, I would make Grandma sit through an episode of Jerry Springer, while I lay sprawled out on the living room floor holding my head up with the palms of my hands. Grandma would sit and laugh while some woman took of her shoe to throw at her husband’s lover.

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I never really thought about the day that my Grandma and Grandpa would die; never wondered what it would be like when they weren’t around. I never imagined them dying. I didn’t think they would live forever, but I didn’t think they would die either. Although with each passing year and each revolving birthday, they gained more wrinkles and more aches and pains and trips to the doctor or hospital.

I can’t really recall the day my Grandpa died; except it was January 31, 2001. It was a Wednesday, the one after the Super Bowl. It was the Baltimore Ravens vs. the New York Giants. No one in my family is really a football fan, but the Super Bowl gave us a reason to have a party with special food and drinks. Everyone was really only watching the game for two things: commercials and halftime. In 2001, I was 16 and in love with the pop music. When Aerosmith began to play “Jaded,” I sang along, belting each word and note to my heart’s content. My Grandpa leaned forward in his old red recliner, pointed at the TV and said, “What the hell is this racket? Can’t even understand the damn words.” I just looked at him and said, “Its Aerosmith Grandpa.”

I don’t remember the day I found out Grandpa died. All I know is that Grandpa was having trouble with his kidneys and was on dialysis for it. Mom told me she took Grandpa to the doctors in the morning, they brought him home for breakfast, and after he was done with his eggs, he laid his head on the table, then fell out of his chair dead onto the floor. I don’t know what my reaction was when my mom told me that he died. I think I was in shock. I couldn’t help but think, the last words I said to him were, “Its Aerosmith Grandpa.” I never said I loved him. The funeral is all a blur to me now, except for my Grandma, sitting in her chair. She had been chewing her gum when she choked on it and we all gathered to her side to assist her. After getting the gum out of her mouth, we of course threw it away. When we told her what we had done with her gum, she said, “Well what did you do that for? It wasn’t the gums fault.”

I do remember kissing Grandpa’s forehead in the casket before we all left the funeral. I hated funerals and still do, and the last I wanted to do was kiss a dead person. But mom stood there saying, “This is the last time you will get a chance to.”

Grandma’s death was a little different. It was so unexpected compared to Grandpa’s. (Not that we expected Grandpa to die when he did, it’s just Grandpa was sick and Grandma… wasn’t.) I remember the days leading up to her death like they play out every day in my head. After Grandpa died, mom and I moved in to the old homestead to help Grandma out and give her some company. The days went by like any teenagers days do, fast and full of school work, boys and dead-end jobs that had no future. It was February 3, 2003 and I just started dating a boy that I had been talking to for weeks before hand. I remember my mother and I sitting at our computer doing an online quiz that evaluated your answers to ten multiple-choice questions that had to do with your birth date, whether you smoked, drank, did drugs, and whether you had health related problems or not and then told the month, day and age you would die. I honestly don’t know what we were thinking when we did it, but when we typed in my Grandma’s information, the quiz said that she would die on February 22 at age 88. My Grandma was going to be 89 years old on April 8, her next birthday in 2003. On Tuesday February 4, 2003 my boyfriend had asked if my Grandma was still alive since I had called him the night before to reveal her death quiz results. I was frightened it would be right, but deep down, I knew that was unrealistic.

Wednesdays were the nights that my best friend Stephanie would come over to go to church with us and then spend the night. And so, the next day came, Wednesday February 5. Mom made ziti and meatballs for dinner before church. Grandma had spent a great deal trying to get ready and hadn’t eaten dinner. She said she would skip the sermon to stay home and eat. As we piled in the car, we heard her, “Wait, wait, I am coming too.” She shuffled through the door and plopped into the front seat of my mom’s red Saturn. “I will eat when I get home.”

Church went well. Grandma was the praising kind and stood there worshipping with all the rest, her arms reaching towards the ceiling barely able to make it past her midsection. She hated the taste of milk and refused to drink it. Mom said that was why Grandma couldn’t lift her arms, because she didn’t get the calcium she needed and I could learn an important lesson from it. Reverend Jimmy Jack from New York City had been the guest speaker that night, and if he said anything that stuck out, it was, “We need to be on fire for God. We need to be excited we are serving him.” He repeated the words many times and my Grandma just shook her head in agreement with her Bible open and a smile on her face. We headed home, listening to Grandma exclaim, “I could listen to him all night. He is a good preacher.”

After arriving home, Stephanie and I were ushered up to bed. My throat had been making cough all night, so mom insisted that don’t kiss Grandma because she could get sick easily. I don’t know what it was; whether it was something telling me I had to kiss her, or I was just being rebellious, but I kissed her goodnight and headed up the stairs.

The next morning, (February 6, 2003) went as any other day did. Stephanie and I got up, showered and had breakfast. My mom headed to work and Grandma was getting out of bed just as we headed out the door to meet the bus at the end of the driveway. Grandma would always stand at the front door, and watch as a gathered my books and headed onto the big yellow bus. Just as the bus began to come in view up over the hill, I could hear a faint voice behind me, “Ashley, Ashley…” I turned around to see my Grandma sticking her head out the screen door, yelling my name and waving are hand at me as my black lab, Teddy, pushed between her legs to sneak a peek as well. I got on the bus, found my seat and vigorously waved to my Grandma as the bus pulled away from 1609 Colesville Road and headed up the next hill.

I didn’t think too much about leaving Grandma home alone everyday. I figured she would be okay, going about her day in her normal routine. Watching The Price is Right, chatting with her best friend Doris from down the street and most likely feeding Teddie some scraps of table food after mom and I told her not to. And of course, I too went about my day as usual with school; a little bit of English, a little bit of Spanish and a little bit of everything else.

I remember I was sitting in History class. Mr. Pritchard was substituting for Mr. Henry that day. I remember Mr. Pritchard, the one that was short and old with a comb-over hairdo that just looked ridiculous in every way. He smelled like beer all the time and with the way his words slurred, I am sure he came to class drunk. He would sit there, pretending to know what he was talking about, holding his index cards with the information them, and throwing them on the floor one by one as he read them. We were taking a test and the phone rang. He walked over to it, and after a slight “Yes,” he hung up and said, “Ashley Vincent repot to the Principle’s office.”

The Principle’s office? Why would Mr. Hamilton want to see me? Did I do something wrong? No, that can’t be. Stephanie was always the one in trouble. Maybe they just wanted to question me about something she did. My mind was racing wondering what was going on. I remember walking down the long corridor and heading down the stairs as my head began to run through excuse after excuse as to why I shouldn’t get detention for whatever it was I was sure I didn’t do.

I walked in; my face was red with nervousness. Everyone was standing there; Mrs. VanAbs, Mrs. Quick, Mr. Hamilton, Mrs. Rowe and even some students. Mrs. Rowe got off the phone and said, “Ashley, that was your mother on the phone, we lost the connection, but you can use the phone over there. You have to call her cell phone, she is one her way home.”

She didn’t have to say it, I knew something was wrong. I felt the blood in face drain to my toes and I knew I was becoming Ghostly. I dialed quickly, my hands shaking as brought the phone to my ear. “Mom?”

“There is a fire at the house Ashley. Grandma is being airlifted to Syracuse.”

I don’t know if I even heard all that. I remember throwing the phone to the floor, and screaming so loud. Mrs. Quick and Mr. Hamilton rushed over to my aid and helped stand up. One held the phone to my ear as I heard my mom calling my name. “Ashley, do you want me to come get you and take you to Syracuse with me?”

“No. I don’t want to go. I don’t want to see her like that.” I was scared, and maybe I thought she would make it or maybe I knew she would die and I just wanted to remember her the way I saw her waving me from the door that morning.

Of course my mom told me I had to stay the night somewhere because the house was unlivable. I didn’t know what happened and I was sure what was going on. I just headed back up the stairs crying to my History test that still sat on my desk with just a few bubbled answers on it. My face feeling like a soaked sponge and my body unable to cooperate with my mind, I walked in and sat down. Starring at the test with tear-filled eyes, Mr. Prichard strolled over and said, “Get back to work. You have twenty minutes to finish.”

I couldn’t take it. I remember just getting up and saying no, I can’t or something like that and running out into the hall as I fell lightly onto the tiled floor sobbing with head in my hands. Stephanie laid her hands on my shoulder and asked what was wrong. But the thing was, I didn’t know what was wrong. The only thing I gained from the phone conversation was ‘fire, Syracuse and Grandma.”

I didn’t find out until 9 p.m. that night exactly what happen, and on some level I am pretty positive that none of it registered. I was in a shocked state of mind and I think even now, five years later, it is still all so unrealistic to me.

I was staying with Amanda, a girl that I remember from the BOCES bus who didn’t like me because I was too loud and happy all the time. She had been in the Main Office when I was called down and offered for me to stay with her while my house was getting fixed from the fire. I was just sitting there on the couch when the phone rang; my mom on the other end told me exactly what happened. This is when I never digested the information and later was able to let it sink in what had gone on.

She was making her morning tea on the stove. When she went to pour the hot water into her mug, she didn’t turn off the flame to the stove and caught the sleeve to her housecoat on fire. She walked over to the table, sat down and began eating. She moved her arm from the table to her waist where she then realized she was on fire on her sleeve and her waist area. At the time, my mother and I had hung a heavy blue blanket in the doorway from the living room to the kitchen to keep the cold air in the kitchen. My Grandmother had to pass by this to get the living room, and managed to do so without even singeing the fabric. At this time, her slippers were on fire and left a print in the kitchen tile. As she walked to the bathroom, parts of her housecoat were falling off and starting little fires around the house. In the living room, one of the fires burnt a hole straight through the floor to the basement. Most of the damage to the house was confined to the bathroom where my Grandma took her robe off and put it in the tub, and where she turned on the water to the sink, letting it overflow while she ran around the house putting out the little fires here and there that started.

That was the way my Grandma was; always thinking of others and putting them above her. We believe she was thinking that she needed to put out the fires so that her, my mother and I could have a place to live.

My Aunt Tammy was supposed to come up to the house to spend the day or just a portion of it with Grandma. However, my little cousin Sydney got sick and was staying home from school. Not wanting to make Grandma sick, my Aunt opted to just call and reschedule the visit.

“Mom, I wont able to come up, but we will get together sometime this week.”

In a weary voice my Grandma answered, “That’s fine.”

My Aunt had noticed the different sound in my Grandma’s voice and asked, “Are you okay ma?”

“Oh, I am fine. I am just a little burned.”

Thinking it was nothing but she burned her arm, my Aunt said she would come up and take Grandma to the hospital.

Upon arriving, she went in to find my Grandma naked and her body completely and severely burned, lying on the couch with Doris nearby. When Tammy asked if anyone called 911, all Doris said was she didn’t feel like it was her place to call because she’s not family, therefore my Aunt called 911.

When the medics arrived, they said that she was just too fragile to touch and that they would have to get her to Cole Park where the helicopter was waiting to take her to the Syracuse Burn Center. The medics said that Grandma couldn’t feel anything because she was so burnt that her nerve endings were gone. But I think that she knew she was okay because she would soon be in the presence of our Lord.

When they got to the hospital, Grandma barely was hanging on to life. Grandma’s five daughters are scattered through New York and Pennsylvania, with my Aunt Roberta being the furthest in Niagara Falls. However, Grandma hung on until each and every daughter of hers was by her bedside. After everyone was there, they told her that it was okay to let go now, and then sang her favorite song “Amazing Grace.” At 4:20 p.m. my Grandma was pronounced dead.

Until now, I just went through the motions of life; moving from Grandma and Grandpa’s homestead into an apartment with my mom, going every Memorial Day to the cemetery to visit them at the grave. And now, I am hoping to release the pain that I have had bottled up through this.

I guess I never realized all the memories I acquired, I was just going through life… oblivious to the fact that someday, my Grandma and Grandpa Snedeker would be gone, and the only thing I could hold onto are these scrapbooked memories.

In memory of Clarence Snedeker "Grandpa" (1918-2001)

and Alene Snedeker "Grandma" (1914-2003)

We love and miss you very much. You are always in our hearts.

See you when we get there!

Because of Daddy

Ialways obeyed my mom’s rule about not going to close to the curb. But that was when I was 5, now I am seven-years-old; practically a grown woman. I know that she doesn’t see it that way, but I do. And that is why I decided to test the waters with my basketball every so often. When mama wasn’t looking, my ball would roll from our driveway right into the street; make it to the middle almost then roll back to hit the curb. I didn’t go too far, just far enough to get my stranded ball. I couldn’t leave it there to go get mother, just so she could come get it. What if the mean boys down the street saw it all alone and took it? I knew they would if I left it. They threw snowballs with rocks in the middle of them at Abby and I, I wouldn’t put it passed them to take my ball. It was new, from Wal-Mart. It was yellow with a smiley face on it… and they couldn’t have it. It was mine and I was going to be the big girl I am and get it. Mom would surely understand!

She didn’t. She was smart. She sent me to my room and closed the door all the way. I hated that. It scared me. I cried and cried and cried, but she never opened it back up without saying, “What did I tell you about going that close to the curb? You could have gotten hit by a car.”

I cried more, but I knew that I wouldn’t have gotten hit by a car. The only people that came down that road were the people that lived on it. And they know kids lived here, so they went slow. But to get out of my enclosed square box that I was terrified of, I said, “I am sorry ma, I won’t do it again.”

We lived on a side road off a side road in Johnson City. There was a little store on the corner near the main road that I was never allowed to go to. Yet this was like the “curb” issue. I talked Abby into going with me every so often and that weird kid, Matt that couldn’t stop trying to hold my hand tagged along. I didn’t like him, he was too strange. I would go there to buy candy cigarettes because I thought they were cool; or “kool” which is how the older kids were spelling. Mom threw a fit every time I went there, and yet, I still did.

I guess that at some point she decided I was old enough to cross streets. I am what kids call a “walker.” I walk to school. From my sitter’s house about 5 blocks away, I walk to “Stinkin’ Lincoln.” I don’t know how that name caught on, but that is what we all called it. Maybe it was because there were crossing guards everywhere, that mom didn’t have trouble letting me walk to school. I would walk every day with Abby to and from school.

Today was different though. We made up our minds that this day we were not walking to school. We were walking home to our apartment building across the railroad tracks. Abby and I came from “broken homes.” At least that is what my Aunt called it, and I though she meant my house was falling apart, but it looks study to me. However, I guess she meant we didn’t have fathers. Although, I do have a daddy and so does Abby, they just don’t live with us. And on a day like today, we couldn’t sow our faces at “Stinkin’ Lincoln.”

Today was the day all the kids fathers lined the back wall of classroom. The day they looked at the pictures we drew that hung neatly on the walls and the day that they hugged their kids and said I love you to them because they were proud. And today, like last year, my dad wasn’t there. I didn’t invite him, so maybe it was my fault. Last year, I brought my mom and the kids laughed… I didn’t want that to happen again, so Abby and I skipped school altogether today. No parading fathers to gawk at, no kids to laugh and pick on us, no teachers with searching eyes as they call for our fathers to stand, NOTHING to hurt our feelings.

It was the perfect plan. We walked the long distance home, and made it without getting hurt. WE crossed streets, held hands, looked both ways… we were big girls. Not big enough to carry a key though. We were locked out. We came home to spite the school, and we were locked out of the house. But that meant nothing, the garage was always unlocked and it had everything we needed. Toys to play with, bikes to go to the park, and our lunches were in our bags.

Everything was going our way until the little blue car that Abby’s mother stepped out of pulled in the driveway. We scattered like loose marbles, running anywhere we could to get out of sight and hid behind towering bushes. She must have seen us because her voice yelling our names carried through the air and pierced my ears. “Abby, Ashley…”

“We’re not here…” What was I doing? I might as well have jumped on her car.

BUSTED! I had ruined the whole plan. We were dragged to school and straight to the principles like stray dogs to a pound. Humiliation hit me as the kids peeked through the crack of the door on the way to the bathroom. And at that moment I wished my mom was there in class with me because I wouldn’t be as ashamed.

The weeks following were bad. Mom made me sit in the corner of the living room facing the wall for a month, while Abby was outside playing after a week.

Seven is a hard age and I am sure it gets harder as I get older. But if I learned one thing, it’s not to skip school… or maybe it’s to not get caught.